My friend Auralee and I have a long running debate, I hesitate to use the word argument as I don’t necessarily disagree with her, regarding the almost irresistible allure of the bad boy in media. She finds bad boys unattractive for a myriad of reasons all of which are pretty indisputable they are self centred, childish, inconsiderate of others just to name a few of their less appealing traits.
Think about it, with whom did your allegiances lie with in LOST? Jack or Sawyer? Or in Vampire Diaries, before it jumped the shark, Stephan versus Damon though if you ask my opinion using Ian Somerhalder in any competition whatsoever is just cheating. Even Auralee of the staunch opinions waivers under his power, truly who wouldn’t? Can anyone resist that smirk?
There is not just one, but no less than seven lists that directly feature bad boys on Goodreads Listopia so this phenomena is not just a construct of this author’s mind. We are inundated in the media with images of the bad boy. Nor are bad boys in literature a new concept for every Mr. Darcy we need a Wickham. In fact, consider the basic love triangle equation, it consists of A, we will call her Confused Young Woman, B, the Bad Boy of course and C, our white knight. Add conflict and personal growth, stir vigorously and with the right combination of the above it is literary and/or cinematic magic.
A recent article from Ask Men – Become a Better Man in their Dating & Sex section titled “How To Be A Bad Boy” had the following to say on the topic.
Just as men are turned on by a woman’s femininity, so to do women respond to overt male masculinity — and the Bad Boy has it in buckets. What’s going on here is that she’s having a gut reaction to his confidence and male strength, and is blind to anything else. So the trick is to learn to take the Bad Boy’s negative traits and spin them in a positive direction to make them work for you — in other words, to become a Bad Boy without really being “bad.” This way, you can still maintain your gentleman status without turning into an abusive jerk.
To a certain extent it is biology that elusive combination of pheromones and physical characteristics that identify to us that the individual’s potential to produce viable offspring is good. However being as we no longer have to forage for food or defend our caves from marauding bandits or animals or both, are the bad boy’s days numbered?
As I read My Life Next Door by Huntley Fitzpatrick, I realized that this author has done the impossible. In Jace Garrett, she has literally crafted the perfect man and while the third of the impressively large Garrett brood may be from the wrong side of the tracks he is without a doubt an unequivocally “nice guy”.
“One thing my mother never knew, and would disapprove of most of all, was that I watched the Garrets. All the time.”
- Title: My Life Next Door
- Author: Huntley Fitzpatrick
- ISBN: 0803736991 (ISBN13: 9780803736993)
- Series: My Life Next Door #1
- Published: June 14th 2012 by Dial Books For Young Readers
- Format: Trade Paperback
- Genre: YA/Romance
- Page Count: 394
- Source: Purchased
- Rating: A
The Garretts are everything the Reeds are not. Loud, messy, affectionate. And every day from her rooftop perch, Samantha Reed wishes she was one of them . . . until one summer evening, Jase Garrett climbs up next to her and changes everything.
As the two fall fiercely for each other, stumbling through the awkwardness and awesomeness of first love, Jase’s family embraces Samantha – even as she keeps him a secret from her own. Then something unthinkable happens, and the bottom drops out of Samantha’s world. She’s suddenly faced with an impossible decision. Which perfect family will save her? Or is it time she saved herself?
My Life Next Door is quite simply a fabulous book, it was one of those reads that I simultaneously wanted to put down lest anything bad happen to the characters I was becoming so fond of and devour in a single sitting just to find out what happens. The latter of these impulses won out, I have the sunburn on my forehead as testament from reading outside at midday while my daughter played contentedly in the cat box…whoops, I mean beach volleyball pits.
In a strange reversal of fortune considering she is from a single parent family, in the world of haves and have nots, Samantha Reed is definitely in the former category. Schooled by her state senator mother she leads a life of following the rules. Her secret indulgence is watching the Garetts from the safety of the roof outside her bedroom window. While Samantha’s mother strictly controls the Reed’s life down to the carefully preserved vacuum cleaner lines on the carpet, the Garetts are joyfully chaotic. For years Samantha has been on the outside looking in at the idyllic unconventional family next door.
“I said that wrong. Like it was all about how you look, and that’s not it. It’s just that you’re so different than I thought you were.”
“Than you thought I was, when?”
“When I saw you. Sitting on your roof. For years.”
“You saw me. For years?” I feel myself flush again. “You didn’t tell me that.”
“For years. Course I didn’t tell you. I knew you watched us. Couldn’t figure out why you didn’t just come over. I thought… maybe you were shy… or a snob… I didn’t know. I didn’t know you then, Sam. Couldn’t help watching back, though.”
My Life Next Door was one of those unusually satisfying reads boasting not just a developed protagonist and possibly the love interest but a whole host of vividly drawn fully developed secondary characters. Of which my personal favorite was Jace’s anxiety filled yet ridiculously endearing youngest brother George.
While I don’t personally subscribe to having book boyfriends per se, perhaps I am just too old but I felt that this blogger nailed it with this post TTT – Top Ten Reasons Why “My Life Next Door” Needs to Have a Sequel.
Quite simply though you may be tempted to go for a ride on the back of the bad boy’s motorcycle on the Highway to Hell, the real miracle is the one who comes home every day after work packs your brood of unruly offspring into the minivan and takes them to soccer practice. Ask anyone, that is romantic. Kudos to Huntley Fitzpatrick for creating such an irresistible character without relying on the tired bad boy archetype. I believe Jace Garrett is a character who would stand up to even my friend’s exacting standards.
- The Fatal Attraction To Bad Boys (thesextimes.wordpress.com)
- Questions I can’t answer because I don’t like to… (realisticasitis.wordpress.com)
- The difference between a ‘bad boy’ and a jerk. (jamesmsama.wordpress.com)
- Love Triangles 101: The Good Guy and the Bad Boy (Part I)(anaherareads.wordpress.com)
- 10 Reasons Why We Love Bad Boys! – “Devoted” by @KPolillo (cabingoddess.com)